It is reported that about 70% of people will leave their children to their parents to raise because they are so busy with their work and have no time to take care of their children, that is, grandparents take the responsibility to raise grandchildren. This phenomenon has caused lots of disputes because some people think children living with grandparents will develop egotism. In my opinion, leaving children to their grandparents has more disadvantages than advantages. Reasons are listed below.
Firstly, grandparents tend to spoil children. Grandparents will satisfy all the requirements of their grandchildren because they are too love their grandchildren to turn their grandchildren down. So children will get whatever they want and if not, they would be bad tempered.
Secondly, staying with grandparents, children will easily develop egotism. As grandparents would do everything around their grandchildren’s need, gradually, those children will believe that no people would against their wills and abide by their words and ask others to do what they want and don’t think about other people’s feelings.
In conclusion, it isn’t good for our children to stay with their grandparents for grandparents will spoil children which make children bad tempered. Besides, it may be inevitable for children to develop egotism by staying with their grandparents. For the long run, parents should raise their children themselves and teach them in a good way.